Kristin Colier

I recently had another fabulous connection made possible only by Social Networking – namely Facebook. A friend and I decided to use her soon-to-expire frequent flier miles on a spontaneous trip to Santa Fe, NM. I sent a message to an old high school friend that lives there now and asked about places to stay, things to do and so on. He offered to let us stay at his place, and he and his girlfriend ended up being the most fabulous hosts we could have hoped for. Despite the cold (I had never heard of a “high desert” before, OK, I’m from NY), we ate, drank and were merry. We met some really fascinating people, including the Drepung Losling Tibetan monks, soaked in hot springs and absorbed the great art and culture that is Santa Fe.
In my opinion, a successful trip and more evidence of the upside of social networking making good things happen.

However, outside my Atlanta Social Media Scene bubble, as in Santa Fe, I often meet folks that find Facebook “creeps them out” a little. Especially in non tech-related fields. Is it just that artists and chefs and contractors are late-adopters and they’ll eventually get on board – exposing themselves like the rest of us? Or, do they anticipate a Big Brother future, where all privacy is lost?

Since I began exploring Social Media several years ago, I wondered… are we individually becoming more vulnerable or are we collectively becoming more open minded, more accepting of personalities in their entirety, not just the persona one takes on in various situations, but the whole package. As we become more personally-branded and less connected with a corporation, what is the long and short-term risk of “putting ourselves out there?”

First of all, I don’t buy into the “if you have nothing to hide, you have nothing to fear” crap. The people that say that always have something to hide. In the immortal words of John Lennon “Everybody’s Got Something to Hide Except For Me and My Monkey.” I’m just adopting a more “take me as I am” attitude, I think.

(I’ll take any excuse to insert a Beatles Clip)

On the other hand, new technology has also provided a new level of anonymity. It allows people to be rude via tools such as Backnoise. It allows you to search for information you would never dare to ask a reference librarian (how to cure toe-fungus), or people (high school sweetheart) without leaving a wake of questions. It also lets people push their own agenda anonymously and consequence-free on many forums.
There are a lot of “lurkers” too – who read blog posts and join Facebook, but don’t comment or contribute… what is the long term impact of that I wonder?

I don’t really have any conclusions here, just more questions.

Do the benefits of “being connected” outweigh the consequences of “being exposed”? Where are we headed in 2010, and is it the right direction?

Happy New Year.
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